Why Hasn’t He Called?

By: Sassy Bean (View Profile)

4. He’s not ready to move on. News flash: men fear commitment. He may have been really excited about meeting you, but it’s possible that he choked at the thought of starting another exclusive relationship. If his last relationship ended badly or he’s a confirmed bachelor, you can wait by the phone all you want but that call will never come.

So what do you do when he doesn’t call? Repeat after me: STEP AWAY FROM THE PHONE. Calling him is the worst thing you can do; it shows him that you’re willing to put up with his crap and sets the stage for more of that treatment in the future. Harness your anxious energy and go to the gym, meet up with friends, or go out to a club. Do something that will make you feel good and bring you one step closer to finding someone who knows how to pick up the phone.

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posted: 03.06.2008
Sara Musfeldt
I hate to say this because I absolutely hate the book, but it's possible that "he's just not that into you." Argh.
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