I am a single man who has two teenage sons living with me.
I have been divorced about nine years and was determine to be alone till I met that one lady that I could not live with out.
The one that together we fly like birds in spirit. And I could love her with all my being knowing she is me, and I am her. And all my life would be to be in the process of living life with her and excited to see and enjoy the adventures of life and the beauty of life with someone who loves you and you love her. And both only want to give theirselves, to the other. Complete and unselfish giving of self to your lover, is a two way street.
That is who I am. I want that kind of relationship. I have not found anyone who believes that a man can feel like that. I am the first to say that most men are ass’s—selfish in all things thinking because they can push their way around that gives them right to do so. I decided along time ago when I was a teen that I would be nice to people until they cross the line of pushing you because you were being nice. Them thinking they can push you because they see you being a nice. When people start doing that, I stop them in their tracks, and put it back in their face. Just because I want to be nice, does not mean I am a push over. I am a large man, very strong and spiritually strong as well. I can handle any man I have ever confronted. But so what, I don’t like to do that. But I will not stand by and let someone bully a smaller person just because they are big and stupid.
Enough of that.
I was reading the page on female masturbation. And I have the feeling from all the women I have met that they have little hope that a man will understand their needs and will, as well never take the time to do what it takes to totally pleasure his women.
I wanted to say that I am the man that wants this. I know that to give to my lover is to give to myself joy.
Because being in love with someone is to need to give to them all they need for them to have full joy in life.
I can joyfully take hours and hours without climax myself to make sure my lover has nothing left and is completely satisfied. Then to slowly love her gentle and she is filled with joy because her body is giving me what I need now and she is totally satisfied.
Because women are born givers. Something I have learned is that a man can never out give a women because when you give to her, she will joyfully always give back in excess of your giving to her. That is one of the most beautiful things about women.
Another thing I love about a women is when she smiles at me. It is one of the greatest pleasures I can have.
To know that she is pleased and enjoys me.
That’s my thoughts for now.
Nathan
