Pregnancy’s Limitations: What Can You Do?

By: Laura Roe Stevens (View Profile)

Remember that 1980s Adam Ant pop song (dare I reveal my age?): “Don’t Drink, Don’t Smoke, What Do you Do?” That’s how a lot of women feel when pregnant. Not that we mind terribly when giving up coffee, alcohol, and substances that will harm our growing babies—but having nine to ten months of bad hair days was too much for me. So many moms out there advise us to not highlight our hair or go to a salon to get nails done as we may breathe fumes. Then there’s the no sushi, large fish, soft cheeses, or mountain bike rides. The list of what we can’t do seems endless. Frankly, some things are necessary to insure that our babies thrive and are born healthy. Who can argue with that? But what about the gray areas, like tanning or highlighting your hair? To shed light on the important things women need to restrict from their diets or not expose their unborn babies to, I consulted Sarah Maddison, M.D., an experienced obstetrician and gynecologist in Raleigh, North Carolina:

Laura: What fish are safe to eat?

Dr. Maddison: Small farm raised fish are the safest. Large fish that eat lots of other fish concentrate mercury, actually methylmercury, which can cause injury to a growing baby’s nervous system. Shark, king mackerel, swordfish, and tile fish should definitely be avoided. More conservative sources also add tuna steak, Spanish mackerel, grouper, and orange roughy to the list. Limited amounts of canned light tuna are probably okay if you limit it to less than 8oz per week. Fish is a good source of Omega-3 fatty acids which are good for the developing nervous system. Two servings per week is a good amount. Salmon, trout, talapia, flounder, and shrimp get the thumbs up. Most states post a list of some locally caught fish that may not be safe to eat pregnant or not, so people should look for any regional restrictions as well.

Laura: Why do some moms avoid deli meats? If it is due to preservatives, why are they unhealthy and are there specific preservatives worse than others in your opinion?
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posted: 08.27.2008
Mrs.Virsu
thanks for sharing, i gained a lot of knowledge
posted: 11.30.2007
Allison
Thank you so much for this article! This is my first pregnancy, and after having a sister who doesn't have such a good stance in the pregnancy department (she's had one abortion and one miscarriage), I have been extremely careful in what I do during my own pregnancy. Your article was very enlightening, and I have taken all of it into consideration. Thanks again!
posted: 10.19.2007
Jess Zamora
This is my first time being pregnant and my first time getting onto something like this, so forgive me if I seem naive. Everything you asked has helped me, but I was also wondering when pregnant women should stop having sex. I've heard people say that you can have sex until your third tremester. I've also heard that even in that tremester, you can still have sex, but it's uncomfortable. I want to have this baby and I don't want to mess it up, so if you know someone who can answer my question, please let me know.
posted: 06.04.2007
Zahira Baxtron
As a mom of 4 and expecting my 5th baby,I can honestly say that most of the things that people worry about while pregnant are not necessary. I feel that as long as you are comfortable with what you are doing then you will be OK. It is fine to educate yourself,but don't needlessly worry yourself either. A lot of women have given birth to perfectly healthy babies long before they had all of this research.Honestly I didn't do any research for my first 2,for my 3rd I started looking a little more into what the experts say you can and can't do and all it did was drove me nuts! For all of my kids I just did what I felt comfortable with and they all came out fine! I ate what I wanted to eat,unfortunatly they weren't the best food choices,I didn't worry about exercise,I just kept doing what I did on a regular basis,I still cleaned my house the way I did before,and I didn't have a weight problem while pregnant or after and all 4 children have been extremely healthy at birth and now.
posted: 03.20.2007
Jennifer K
Thank you for this very insightful article & interview. When I first heard to avoid deli meats & soft cheeses I stopped right away, but was unsure of the reasoning behind it. Thank you for sharing!
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