A Single Cell: Get Busy Living

By: Tracy Maxwell (View Profile)

Do you have a life “to-do” list? If so—good for you! If not—why not? I was lucky enough to cross a few items off mine this summer. Hooray! Since summer 2006 was spent in surgery, hospitals and chemotherapy, without hair or sunshine . . . this year, I decided to give myself a summer vacation. Remember what summer vacations were like? How about spring break? Too bad we don’t get those anymore when we leave school.

In April I quit my job, cashed in some investments and proceeded to enjoy four months of work-free bliss. Yes, I had moments of sheer panic wondering if I would be able to pay for my health insurance, and what my next job would be, but mostly, I had fun. So much of our lives are spent worrying about work, working, or looking for work. I know, I know, it’s necessary for those of us who want to eat. I get it. But it is possible to earn a living while also having a life. I came across two books this summer that were inspiration for not going back to a regular 9-5 job—The Joy of Not Working by Ernie J. Zelinski and The 4 Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss. I haven’t read them both, but I’m well into the first one, and it makes some fine points about the ability to enjoy leisure time. Too many of us wrap our lives up in work and forget how to live.

The subtitle for this article is the slogan of a friend’s website i2y (www.imtooyoungforthis.org). “Got Cancer? Under 40? Sucks, huh? Get Busy Living.” Matthew Zachary started his organization in 2004, and it has recently gotten a lot of attention. Time Magazine named his website one of the top 50 in the world, and he and his organization are about to be featured on the hot new Lifetime TV show A Side Order of Life.

I also recently met Kris Carr, 36-year-old cancer survivor and creator of Crazy, Sexy Cancer, a documentary airing on The Learning Channel, and a book, just published. Kris has written the kind of book I want to write­—fun, irreverent, helpful, and full of life. Google “crazy, sexy” and she will come up.

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posted: 10.27.2007
Barb Zachow
Kudos to Tracy for her excellent essay and the fact that she has discovered what life is really supposed to be. This discovery is also useful to those of us approaching retirement and wondering when we can start to "live." Forseveral years, now that my children are adults, I have been trying to identify what I want & find a way to do it while keeping body & soul together financially. I do not want to look back with regrets, but the societal and family tugs are so strong to conform and "keep the nose to the proverbial grindstone."
posted: 10.08.2007
Amanda Coggin
I have always wondered why, as the richest and freest citizens in the world, so many of us think we can't do it. I attribute it to the fear mongering, but every time I have taken a risk and have jumped ship, I have not been disappointed. In fact, every time I do it, I get closer to what it is that I want to spend my time doing. As my aunt said the other day, "You have traveled to more countries and have had more life experiences than most have in a lifetime." I'm grateful for that. Thanks for the reminder.
posted: 09.27.2007
Ally
Often times our to-do lists get filled with 'laundry/paybills/organize closet' that we forget to put the fun ones on there too. Next on my list-go visit those friends in NYC before they move away. Yesterday...I bought my ticket!
posted: 09.27.2007
Shyla Batliwalla
Thank you for this inspiring story! I wrote a life-to-do list for a class in high school and have not looked at it since. Your story has inspired me to dig it up and re-write a new one...
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