Dropping the C-Word

By: Kathleen J. King (View Profile)

Although I’m not opposed to any of these pet names necessarily (I love language), I can’t help asking why must women’s bodies continue to be sanitized? Are we afraid of our own sexuality?

Perhaps reclaiming some of these words on our own terms will strip away some of the taboo. But unlike the F-word and even “bitch” to some extent, the C-word remains just too offensive for most. In an interview with the London Independent in 2006, Germaine Greer, who had been an advocate of taking back the C-word in the 1970s, reversed her position somewhat: “I don’t think now that I want the C-word to be tamed. I love the idea that this word is still so sacred that you can use it like a torpedo, that you can hole people below the waterline. You can make strong men go pale. This word for our female ‘sex’ is an extraordinarily powerful reminder of who we are and where we came from. It’s a word of immense power—to be used sparingly.”

At what point will we stop apologizing—and truly embrace the beauty and power of all women?

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posted: 11.15.2008
Dena
Two people walked out of the cinema when I was watching Atonement for the second time. The movie hinged on the misunderstanding and the use of this word. Those two narrow-minded people missed out on a marvellos film. I am English and as well as being a huge movie-buff, am a fan of Madonnas soon-to-be ex, Guy Ritchie." Snatch" and" Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels" are classic examples of the C-word being applied to men by men. It implies that the person being called a C--- is un-masculine and inferior.This word IS offensive and I hope never to hear it leave my teenagers lips. My 16 year old says the F word occasionally and because she only uses it "appropriately" (in my judgement) I am not offended, nor do I reprimand her. But if I got to hear that she has said C--- I would have to have a sit-down with her!
posted: 11.05.2008
RipplingBrook
i cringe when i hear this word... when another woman uses it, it demeans all of us. when a man uses it, it is blashemy -- at least to my ears. the word is vile ~ despicable ~ crude ~ rude = TOTALLY UNACCEPTABLE. GRRRRRRR!
posted: 10.23.2008
Eris Penn
In the largest democracy in the world the C-word is preventing women from the White House.
posted: 10.23.2008
Eris Penn
When I was in my tweens, I made a comment which included the C-word which I'd heard my own mother drop on several occasions and she responded,"I don't ever want to hear you say THAT word again!" Yes,
posted: 04.29.2008
Rosie Jones
Like most things in this world it happens (secretly) on the say so of women and they are not ready.
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